“Self-esteem is made up primarily of two things: feeling lovable and feeling capable” – Jack Canfield
Why is it important to value yourself?
Everyone wants to feel like they belong somewhere. Like they matter. That their work and their existence have a purpose. But to achieve that sense of belonging, we first have to grow and invest in ourselves. We have to be able to look at ourselves with empathy and understand our own needs and desires. Only then can we truly empower ourselves and create a life that feels purposeful. So if you’re looking for a sense of belonging, start with yourself. Invest in your self-growth and development. It’s the foundation upon which everything else is built.
When we invest in ourselves, we create a sense of purpose and belonging. We feel more connected to who we are and what we want out of life. We become more confident and empowered to pursue our goals. And as we grow, we find that our relationships blossom and deepen. So if you’re seeking a sense of belonging, start with yourself. Invest in your self-growth and development. It’s the foundation upon which everything else is built.
When we feel disconnected from ourselves, we tend to look for approval and validation from others. We try to fit in and conform to what others expect of us. But this only leads to feelings of emptiness and frustration. Instead, we need to learn to connect with ourselves on a deeper level. Only then can we find true belonging.
The first step is to become aware of your thoughts and feelings. Listen to your inner voice and trust your intuition. What do you want in life? What are your deepest values and beliefs? Once you know yourself, you can start living a life that is true to you.
It can be scary to step out of your comfort zone and be yourself. You might worry about what others will think or say. But remember, you are the only one who knows what it feels like to be you. So don’t let anyone else control your life. Live according to your standards and values.
When you are true to yourself, you will attract people who appreciate and respect you for who you are. These are the people who will make you feel like you belong. So surround yourself with positive, supportive people. Build relationships based on mutual respect and understanding.
And finally, don’t be afraid to take risks. Follow your dreams and pursue your passions. You never know what you might achieve if you dare to go after what you want in life.
So be yourself, live your life to the fullest, and never give up on your dreams. That’s the best way to ensure a happy and fulfilling life.
Do you know your dreams, the desires of your heart?
If you are uncertain in your response, take the next leap and invest in your own empowerment and growth. That has been the most worthy leap for me, and for countless clients asking me for help.
If you are ready to take your big leap and break through your self-imposed ceiling, reach out to me. I cannot wait to help you.
Send me an email to ilze@ilzealberts.com or WhatsApp me and request a call.
From my heart to yours
Ilze
