It is so easy to go through daily existence and the busyness of life without noticing the small warning signs that your relationship needs attention. You service your car when it’s broken. You go to the doctor when your body gives you symptoms that you are not physically well. You ask for directions if you don’t know your way. What do you do when your relationships need tender loving care or emergency intervention?
I have complied a Marriage Assessment Test for you to test the health of your marriage. You can also use this test to determine the health of your relationship with your significant other. You don’t have to be married.
I have complied a Marriage Assessment Test for you to test the health of your marriage. You can also use this test to determine the health of your relationship with your significant other. You don’t have to be married.
Marriage Assessment Test
Answer the 10 questions as honestly and sincere as possible. Tick for true and X if not true.
- My spouse is my best friend and we like to spend serious and playful time together.
- I often think about my spouse in a fond manner.
- I feel my spouse and I support each other.
- I share personal information with my spouse and feel safe.
- I feel I can trust my spouse.
- My spouse and I communicate well with each other.
- We have our special way to deal with conflict.
- I feel confident about the stability of our relationship.
- I want to be with my spouse till the end.
- I still feel a physical attraction to my spouse and we have regular sex.
How to score the health of your marriage:
- 8 ticks and more – Great marriage. Count yourselves blessed.
- 4-6 ticks – Your marriage needs some renewed attention and growth. Marriage growth and renewal consultations recommended.
- 1-3 ticks – your marriage is in distress and needs emergency treatment.
Your next step:
Your relationship scored “great”.
Book a date night with your partner and celebrate the good period in your relationship. Keep on investing in your relationship by reading my Free Marraige Enhancement E-book.
I also recommend you watch the 13 episodes of “Saving our Marriage” television series aired on SABC 3, hosted by myself as the expert psychologist with co-host, Paul Nyamuda, a marriage coach.
Your marriage needs some renewed attention and growth:
Marriage growth and renewal consultations are recommended.
Email or phone us to inquire about consultations with myself info@bellavida.co.za / +27 60 743 4143
To enhance the marriage growth and renewal consultations investing in your relationship, read my Free Marriage Enhancement E-book.
I also recommend you watch the 13 episodes of “Saving our Marriage” television series, aired on SABC 3 and hosting myself as the expert psychologist with co-host, Paul Nyamuda, a marriage coach.
Your marriage is in distress and needs emergency treatment:
Take your relationship for emergency treatment as soon as possible.
Read my Free Marriage Enhancement E-book.
I also recommend you watch the 13 episodes of “Saving our Marriage” television series aired on SABC 3 and hosting myself as the expert psychologist with co-host, Paul Nyamuda, a marriage coach.
Contact us to inquire about consultations with myself info@bellavida.co.za / +27 60 743 4143. Do this as soon as possible. Invest in returning to love and appreciation for each other.
Let’s make this a year of saving marriages, relationships and families.
Additional reading..
Saving Our Marriage TV Show
The show was aired on SABC 3 and presented by Anchor Psychologist, Ilze Alberts and Marriage Coach, Paul Nyamuda.
From perceptions of brokenness, lack of confidence, anger, bitterness and loss of respect for each other, the couples healed their relationships as they healed themselves. A stark reminder that the purpose of marriage is not happiness but an opportunity to learn to LOVE.
Love yourself and love your partner for who he or she is. Even though I had the position of expert psychologist working with the couples, even my marriage got even better. Thank you to my co-expert Paul Nyamuda for your giant contribution to make this reality tv series such a success.
Invest in your relationships and watch the 13 episodes.
